Nico Bolzico admits to being a jealous partner before

The Argentine model and businessman said that learning from this past mistake proved to be helpful in making his marriage to actress Solenn Heussaff work.

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2/13/2019 1:24 PM
Nico Bolzico admits to being a jealous partner before


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Known best for his sense of humor, Argentine model and businessman Nico Bolzico took to Instagram to share a personal story and give relationship advice to couples.

Early Wednesday, Nico told a story of a guy who ‘proposed’ to his wife during her recent tour in Cebu for a particular media event. 

“As you all know, my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes. Look again, she is not showing the middle finger,” he said.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes. Look again, she is not showing the middle finger! In line with that, I think it is a good opportunity to discuss how we feel when our Wifezillas talk to another guy. This is always a tricky situation and the way we react can be very critical for the future of our relationship and physical health. Before meeting @Solenn, I used to get very jealous; I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes. But I was wrong, 1 million times wrong! Thinking that way only leads to unfounded fights, drama and degradation of the relationship. The truth (The #BolzTruth) is, if our relationship is based in trust and respect, we shouldn’t be worry about it, and we should be fine with our ladies talking to other guys; except if that other guy is @erwan, then you should be worry, too much sexyness there, irresistible for any human being. I understand that we see our wives as the most beautiful and precious person in our life (if you think different, then go check rule #254 of the #BulliedHusbandClub hand book) and might be difficult seeing them talking to another guy; but it is ok, they should be able have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends (If your #Wifezilla thinks differently then she is right, you shouldn’t be able to have female friends). Summarizing, if you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day! Disclaimer: as usual, these are my words based on what I believed and experienced, as usual I can be wrong; and, if by any means, what I write, say or even think, is not in line with my wife opinion, then my wife opinion should predominate and everything else was wrong, even if that means contradicting, math, physics, gravity, supreme justice or the Pope, she is right; and that my friends, is the Rule #560 of the #BulliedHusdbandsClub hand book.

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Nico took this as cue and began to discuss jealousy among relationships — something that he himself used to relate to prior to meeting his wife.

“This is always a tricky situation and the way we react can be very critical for the future of our relationship and physical health,” he said.

“Before meeting Solenn, I used to get very jealous; I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn’t believe in friendship between opposite sexes. But I was wrong, 1 million times wrong!,” he added.

Relationships should be founded in trust and respect, and along with this is giving your partner the freedom to interact with other people, said Nico.

“I understand that we see our wives as the most beautiful and precious person in our life and might be difficult seeing them talking to another guy; but it is ok, they should be able to have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends,” he said.

“If you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day!,” he added.

 

This isn’t the first time that Nico earned nods for sharing a piece of his marriage advice on social media. In January, the wise husband was lauded for talking about the importance of giving your partner their well-deserved space, after netizens questioned why he and Solenn chose to celebrate the holidays with their respective families instead of each other. 

“We give each other space and we miss each other so much, that is why we enjoy our time together even more, and all that is based on hard rock-solid petrified marble stone wolverine claws back silver strength trust relationship!,” he said.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Today we saw each other again after spending 3 weeks apart, and most important, Christmas and New Year. A lot of people asked us why. The truth is that we are so sure we will spend the rest of our lives together, that be apart for three weeks is nothing. My family is in Argentina (that is also Solenn’s family now) and one condition to move away from home is that I spend Christmas there every year. Solenn normally spends Christmas with her family (that is also my family) and then she meets me in Argentina. This year, because of her career she had to stay and that is ok. We give each other space and we miss each other so much, that is why we enjoy our time together even more, and all that is based on hard rock-solid petrified marble stone wolverine claws back silver strength trust relationship! So, some advice from #ELBolzico: • Don’t be afraid to give each other space or to miss each other; • Let her follow their careers • Let her go out with friends; • We don’t have to be part of everything she does; • Be always supportive and proud of what she does! Don’t try to cut their wings, let them fly (also because otherwise they will probably cut your bolz). I have no credentials to give any of those advices, but this is my IG and I post whatever I want, always pre-approved but my wife, but whatever I want that is in line with her! #NoWingsNoBolz #BulliedHusbandsClub #PostApprovedByWifezilla #IsPocholaTheCutestCreatureOnEarth? 📷: @allen__life

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Nico and Solenn tied the knot in a serene ceremony in Combourg, France back in 2016, in front of their families and closest friends. 

 

The couple are set to celebrate their third wedding anniversary this May.