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Paano nga ba mag-move on? Get tips from the cast of "Nakalimutan Ko Nang Kalimutan Ka"

Alex Gonzaga, Fifth Solomon, Jerald Napoles share their best recipes for being happy again after a break-up.

BY RHEA MANILA SANTOS

Twitter: @allaboutmanila

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9/10/2018 9:28 AM
Paano nga ba mag-move on? Get tips from the cast of


 

The people behind the upcoming movie, Nakalimutan Ko Nang Kalimutan Ka all admitted that breaking up is really hard to do. However despite the sorrow and pain, Alex Gonzaga, Fifth Solomon, Jerald Napoles, Joj Agpangan and Keiko Necesario all shared how to turn the depressing situation around and completely move on from heartbreak.  

Alex Gonzaga

“Siguro kinakalimutan hanggang sa dulo nakalimutan na. Kasi meron akong paniniwala na sometimes you have to fake it til you make it. Iko-convince mo yung sarili mo na masyaa ka, iko-convince mo yung sarili mo na nakalimutan mo na siya kahit hindi pa. Lagi mong iri-remind sarili mo to move on, move on, maging masaya, at kalimutan mo na. Tapos one day gigising ka, hidni mo nakailangan mag-effort kasi totally naklimutan mo na talaga and wala ka ng feelings.”


Director Fifth Solomon

“Mahirap talaga mag-move on. Sobrang sakit siya eh, lalo na pag nasanay ka tapis isang araw wala na. Ang ginagawa ko linilibang ko na lang yung sarili ko sa trabaho, lumalabas ako, nag-sho-shopping, ganun. Yung nanakit kasi sa akin sa Australia naman so mahal, hindi ko na hinabol, may visa pa eh (laughs). Tinanggap ko na lang kessa mapagastos pa. Kailangan libangin mo lang yung sarili mo at saka tanggapin mo na kailangan mo na kalimutan.”

Jerald Napoles

“Yung communication, yung pagputol ng communication. If you want a concrete tip, yun yun. Wala muna kayong communication dun sa other person. Gawa muna kayo ng time sa sarili niyo tapos leave the next time for closure. Para sa akin madi-describe ko talaga yung sugat masakit yun eh habang pinagdadaanan mo. Pag naghilom siya, mas matatag na yung parte ng balat na nasugatan na yun, pero merong marka ng sugat. So there’s still a little part of you na binigay mo at part of the other person na binigay niya. So hindi mawawala yun. Mula nung pumasok kayo sa buhay ng isang tao, at pumasok ang isang tao sa buhay niyo, merong matitirang parte.”


Joj Agpangan

“Always remember self-love. Kasi if hindi ka talaga magtitira sa self mo, walang maiiwan sayo. Ikaw talaga yung kawawa sa dulo. Self-love is really important. It’s not selfish but it’s important. For me you should never stop trying maka-forget. For example, sa ex mo nag-hold on ka kasi masaya kayo at that time, good memories, pero dapat i-mindset mo na kailangan ikaw magiging better ka ba with him? So dapat i-condition mo yourself para maka-forget. Kinakalimutan mo it’s because it’s best for you and it’s the right decision.”


Singer Keiko Necesario

“I’m very religious so I pray about it. Parang combination siya ng ano ni Lord at saka ng decisions mo. Ibibigay naman niya yung choices, nasa yo yung pakikinggan mo. Sa akin ganun lagi. 

Mahirap kasi ako makalimot kasi never pa ako nagka-boyfriend, as in NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) kasi I’m waiting for the right one and I think there’s nothing wrong with that. Pero na-in love na ako. Siguro tatlong beses akong nagmahal talaga and pinakamasakit siguro for me three years ago yun yung kailangan i-remind mo yung sarili mo na kailangan mong makalimot. You have to let go talaga para mas ma-forgive mo yung nangyari sa inyong dalawa, ma-forgive mo yung sarili mo, it’s all about the process of healing and you have to acknowledge your emotions as well.”