Rodjun Cruz reveals the secret to staying in love for almost 11 years.
Even after a more than a decade of dating, Rodjun Cruz said he will never get tired of doing things for his fiancée Dianne Medina. “Yun yung maganda sa akin na hanggang nagyon na-su-surprise ko pa rin si Dianne. Kasi si Dianne parang alam niya lahat ng ginagawa niya. Ako kasi ginugulat ko talaga siya so yung pag-propose ko sa kanya hindi niya alam yun. So pag sasabihin ko sa kanya yung plano ko, gusto ko ma-surprise ko yung taong love ko. And siyempre yung sikreto namin give and take lang talaga and si Lord talaga yung center ng relationship namin,” he shared.
The 30-year-old actor admitted their relationship has its ups and downs which they have always managed to surpass. “Honestly, we’re not really perfect. Pinagdaanan din namin yung may problema din na pinagdadaanan ng bawat may relationship. We made an extra effort lang talaga na we’re brave enough to really fight for the relationship because it’s really inevitable lalo na we’re in showbiz na walang maging problem. We actually did some love language tests, we took some counselling kahit hindi pa naman talaga kailangan para lang mas mag-level up lang yung relationship. Ako before I was really scared kasi parang naisip ko, ‘Bakit parang walang concrete plan itong taong ito?’ Kasi parang I’m not getting any younger na parang nagtataka ako, what’s taking him so long? May mali ba sa akin? May ganung part. Pero happy ako kasi in God’s perfect time, manner, purpose, and reason talaga and everything will fall into place. So happy ako,” he said.
Even though both Rodjun and Dianne admitted that theirs was a case of how opposites attract, Rodjun said they both respect and appreciate their differences. “Sobrang magkasundo kami niyan. Magkaiba lang kami. Si Dianne talaga siya yung mas seryoso, iniisip niya masyado yung future. Ako kasi happy-go-lucky talaga ako and gusto ko lang i-enjoy yung journey na kasama si Dianne. Hindi ako natatakot. Wala akong fear kasi iba pag team kayo eh. Pag mahal niyo yung bawat isa. Siyempre hindi naman perfect lahat yun, madaming challenges. Pero pag magkasama kayo at mahal niyo yung bawat isa, e-enjoy-in lang namin at si Lord ang center ng relationship namin so alam kong magiging masaya ang lahat,” he said.