Jessy Mendiola gives a shout out to her fellow 'pata girls'

BY ROSELLE BASBAS

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3/12/2018 2:50 PM
Jessy Mendiola gives a shout out to her fellow 'pata girls'


Photo credit: @senorita_jessy on Instagram

 

Jessy Mendiola shared her journey towards self-love and appreciating her body and she hopes to inspire others to do the same.

In an Instagram post on Monday, March 12, she shared her experience of winning FHM’s Sexiest Woman back in 2016, saying she felt good and happy but people still bullied her for her body.

“I was bullied, body shamed with bashers calling me names like 'pata, baboy, taba, etc.' while others said I didn’t deserve to win the title cos I’m waaaaaay bigger than the other girls who they thought should’ve won.”

She said this made her hate herself and lose her confidence, turning to binge-eating off her feelings and gaining weight.

However, Jessy soon realized that she shouldn’t feel bad about loving herself even before she was called the ‘sexiest.’ She talked about shifting the perspective and calls out to her fellow ‘pata girls’ to keep going and to love themselves.

 

So... I’m gonna post about this because a lot of people asked me to. Not to show off or anything, but rather to inspire. I’ve always thought of myself as really strong and fit, yes, even on the picture on the left. I worked out regularly (weights and all), ate what I felt was good for me and you know what? It felt good, I was happy. When I won FHM’s sexiest woman in 2016, I thought... finally, people appreciate my efforts and my body. But I was wrong. I was bullied, body shamed with bashers calling me names like “pata, baboy, taba, etc.” while others said I didn’t deserve to win the title cos I’m waaaaaay bigger than the other girls who they thought should’ve won. I felt really down and started losing my confidence. I loved myself then (big thighs, belly rolls and round face) but when people started pointing out my flaws, I started hating myself, at times even thinking I was a bad person for having “thunder thighs”. I stopped working out, I got depressed, binge ate my feelings off and started gaining more weight than I should. I didn’t even want to be seen on TV anymore, I started turning down roles and it affected my work. Then I realized, why should I feel so bad about myself when I loved myself even before i was called “sexiest”. I thought of myself as sexy, strong ang beautiful in my own way. I started building myself up again despite what other people say (until now they call me names) and have lost 15 lbs since. I learned to eat moderately and exercise to feel good, to be energized rather than by punishing myself for eating chocolates or that blueberry muffin. I started accepting my built and switched my work out according to my body type (Hi @bodybymamakat and mama @nadinetengco love you both 🤗😘). I still see myself as the “pata girl” and it’s okay, it is just a matter of perspective. When I decided to shift perspective, everything started falling into place. I may not be the sexiest for others, but I am sexy and beautiful for myself, that alone is enough. Shout out to every “pata girl” out there, just keep going. Love yourself, love your body and it will love you back. TRUST ME. ❤️ #thunderthighs #patagirl #pataislife #pataforevs

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