Miho Nishida talks about how she is moving on after her breakup with Tommy Esguerra.
One of the most kilig-worthy couples in Pinoy Big Brother 737 was the pairing of Big Winner Miho Nishida and 2nd Big Placer Tommy Esguerra. Fans followed their real-life love story, from friendship to courtship to breakup.
The couple parted ways last April 29, just a few months after celebrating their first year anniversary. Prior to that, they shared the spotlight on It’s Showtime’s “Tomiho Realiserye” and Langit Lupa.
Apart from apologizing to their fans via Twitter, Miho released a statement on Tonight with Boy Abunda last Thursday. She also opened up to Boy Abunda, Karla Estrada, and Jolina Magdangal on the May 4 episode of Magandang Buhay.
“Wala namang perpektong relasyon,” said Miho. “May mga bagay kami na hindi napagkaunawaan.”
There have been speculations about Tommy’s sincerity, hinting that Tommy may just have used her to further his career. Miho was quick to reject the thought. “Hindi ko naisip at ayoko pong isipin na ginamit ako. Naramdaman ko naman ‘yung love niya para sa akin.”
If there’s anything that she misses, it would be the friendship. “Ang nami-miss ko, ‘yung pagiging magkaibigan namin kasi may pinagsamahan naman kami sa PBB. Naging friends kami sa loob ng bahay ni Kuya. Nakilala ko siya kahit hindi kami nagkakaintindihan.”
Miho assured their fans that they tried their best to make their relationship work. “Hindi naman kami nag-break ng biglaan o walang pinag-usapan. Nakapagusap kami at nagkaintindihan naman kami sa mga dahilan kung bakit kami maghihiwalay.”
She believes that there is a reason for everything, and that she is exactly where God wants her to be. “Kung saan kami dinala ni Lord, doon kami. Siguro marami pa kaming kailangan ayusin sa sarili namin. Kunwari siya, Tagalog niya. Ako, English.”
Miho hasn’t seen Tommy since the breakup, but she has no qualms over meeting him or working with him again. “Ready naman ako kung magkita kami.” While there is some sense of regret of not being able to make the relationship work, Miho doesn’t have any anger towards her ex-boyfriend. “Kahit saan kami magkita, kaya ko naman siyang harapin, ngitian, kamustahin. Gusto ko lang po good vibes.”
Despite the failed relationship, Miho still chooses to believe in forever. “Nasa sa inyo naman ‘yun kung paano ninyo iha-handle ang relationship ninyo. Pagdating ng panahon, naniniwala ako na kung talagang kami, kami. Kung hindi, hindi.
“Siyempre nandoon pa din ang sakit, pero wala naman mangyayari kung puro sakit ang iisipin at dadamdamin mo. Kailangan mag-move on.”
Her daughter, Aimi, and her faith keep her grounded. “Kung ano ‘yung binigay ni Lord, tatanggapin ko. Kasi may dahilan kung bakit niya ibinibigay ito.”
Right now, Miho keeps herself busy instead. “Magfo-focus muna ako sa anak ko, sa sarili ko. Mag-aaral ako ng English. Dancing workshop, acting workshop. Kung ano ‘yung ikaka-positive ng pagkatao ko.”
Miho chooses strength and positivity over a broken heart. “Tuloy pa rin and buhay. Hindi naman po matatapos ang buhay ko nang dahil natapos ang ganitong relationship. Laban lang.”