Bianca Gonzalez featured Angelica Panganiban on her vlog and talked about how to move on from a failed relationship. Angelica gave some advice and said acceptance is the key to get over it.
Angelica admitted that when she went through that same situation, she didn’t listen to her friends and family but she soon accepted the fact that the guy she was with is not meant for her.
“Ikaw talaga yung makakaalam kung kailan talagang kaya mo na,” she said.
“Kailangan mo ‘yun tanggapin wag mo ipilit sa sarili mo na baka may hope, nag-start ako doon sa acceptance na wala na, wala na talaga pero feeling ko yun yung pinakamahirap mag-start ka na dun sa mahirap the rest susunod na lang,” she added.
She also said that’s when you will feel the forgiveness, you would stop blaming yourself for what went wrong and also the anger towards your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend would be gone.
“Parang mas malaya ka,” she said.
Bianca added that it is also helpful to feel the pain, to which Angelica agreed.
“Ngayon kasi natatawa na ako e, totoo yun yung matatawa ka nalang? Iniisip ko noon hindi na talaga ako magpapakasal, hindi na ako kikiligin ulit, wala na wala nang hope,” Angelica shared.
She continued, “Feeling ko noon siya nalang yung mamahalin ko kahit hindi niya ako mahalin pabalik. Mag-mukha ka talagang tanga okay lang ‘yun pero mapapagod ka rin.”
Angelica also said that being single is also fun and you would have more freedom and peace of mind when doing the things that you love.
“Ang sarap pala maging single, hindi lahat ng single ay malungkot. Lagi dapat tumayo tayo na mas matibay kaysa sa kahapon.”