Derek Ramsay said that whenever he looks back on his past relationships, he’s not at all bitter since he is also reminded of the good memories. "Most definitely the benefit of having an ex is the good times that you two had, the memories that you had. Naging ex nga kayo but I always look at it that there's always more good memories than bad memories but just two people that weren't meant to be together. I always go look back down memory lane and when I remember a certain ex and she puts a smile on my face I think that's the benefit," he said.
When asked if there is a chance that he would get back with an ex, he responded, "In my state right now no because I'm very happy now with my life so it would really be unfair to that person I'm in a relationship with and even to myself na I'm in a relationship and I'm thinking of my ex, ‘di ba?"
With his experiences in love, Derek remarked that there is really no rule on how to make it last. "I don't think that there is any rule, just like with love and finding that someone you want to have a relationship with. I don't think there are rules. I think you try to set the rues, but I don't think that you ever follow that rule."
He stressed that when it comes to love, getting hurt is part of it all. "Those rules are set because I think that they are afraid to get hurt, but that's the thing about love right? It's a great feeling but that can also bring a lot of pain. You set the rules as a defense mechanism, you fall in love and you end up breaking the rules so [it's like] let's just put the rules there to avoid getting hurt, but it's inevitable."