Kris Aquino on James Yap, “Pay for the consequences. Ikaw nambastos eh”

Rhea Manila Santos

<div><img src='' alt='061913-kris_main.jpg' align='left' border='0' height='290' width='305'>After going on a recent vacation in Singapore with her sons Josh and Bimby, Kris Aquino brought her boys on a trip to Baguio, Hundred Islands and Pangasinan which will all be shown on Kris TV. The host-actress shared her fondest memories abroad during a presscon for the Singapore Tourism Board held last June 18 at the Holiday Inn Makati. “Lahat in-enjoy nila. Kasi basta magkasama kami happy sila,” she shared. Kris also said that she tried to contact James Yap on Father's Day in case the latter wanted to hear from their son. “I texted their lawyers at eight in the morning and I said how is it best to contact. I didn't get a reply until 4:45pm at sinabi sa akin na sorry hindi daw nila ma-contact si Mr. Yap pero subukan ko na lang tumawag so baka abroad,” she recalled. Kris said she is saddened because her ex-husband's camp is always trying to make her look like she is separating her son from his father. “Honestly huwag naman nila akong gawing kontrabida. I did my share at eight in the morning and kung talagang atat ka sa anak mo 'di ba? Let's let the facts speak for itself na huwag niyong sabihin sa akin na pinagkakait ko kasi wala akong pinagkait sa dalawa and in the same breathe sasabihin ko na ngayon ko na-appreciate ang pagkatao ni Philip Salvador na never ginulo si Josh. Nakita na maganda ang pagpapalaki ng pamilya ko, nakita kung ano yung devotion na binibigay ng mga kapatid ko kay Josh. Hindi kami ginulo walang hiningi. Hinayaan kami at nakita kung ano ang resulta. Its not easy to special child and he realized that but he allowed us because he saw kung gaano namin minahal si John. So dun mo mako-compare and yung ano talaga siguro is that the only thing na lang left is everything kasi dinadaan sa press release, hindi kailangan ganun.” Kris added she never tried to influence Bimby when it comes to his father. “You know I won't lie to you, kasi I can't speak for my son pero kasi kung hinahanap niya eh di ang tagal na nilang nag-ba-bonding. Walang nanay na tatanggi sa anak. It's not about me, it's about my son and about what is best for him and kung anong gusto niya. I think videos can't lie kasi ina-allow ko yung show ko to shoot us na raw, yung talagang what's happening. So nakikita niyo at naririnig niyo kung anong klaseng magulag ako, kung anong relationship namin. Napagod na lang ko na ako yung pino-portray na nag-pe-prevent. I didn't have to text. I didn't have to say, 'Kung gusto makausap si Bimb this Father's Day, please let me know how best to contact,' and even though hindi siya allowed to communicate with me, alam naman niya yung number ng yaya, yung number ng driver. Kung gusto mo, may paraan talaga. So sana hindi lang gusto kasi maganda pakinggan. San yung gusto na naggagaling sa puso. Yun lang di ba?” The Kris TV host also talked about the recent court decision regarding the incident with James Yap earlier this year. “The court found it in my favor na in the court's eyes, na-validate na nabastos ang pagkababae ko ni James Yap. So pay for the consequences. Ikaw nambastos eh. Parang masyadong nililihis yung nangyari and obviously the court found that you violated my rights as a woman. So hindi ko yun ginagamit. Parang tigilan na natin yung pag-sa-shroud in so many things. Hindi ako nag-iiyak in public, hindi ko naman ginawang big deal talaga but kung ganyan yung example na ipapakita mo sa anak mo, what kind of man do you want your son to become? Kasi nagpapakatotoo lang ako kasi sila puro kasinungalingan. This is the truth and my son knows the truth kasi he witnessed everything. Again, dadaan ito sa proper court kasi I told them, sa visitation bahay namin eh and hindi ka nga puwede umapak sa bahay namin so idaan niyo ng maayos kung saan yung visitation. I got the papers today, pinakita ko kay Bimb, in-explain ko sa kanya na we'll go through this the proper way. Kung maayos kung saan yung venue ng visitation, by all means di ba? They didn't grant him visitation rights. Honestly kasi, it's their joy na mag-ingay so ayoko ibigay yung joy na yun sa kanila so hindi ko papatulan. Ang joy ko na lang maging nanay so yun na lang. ” she admitted. The Queen of All Media minced no words when asked what she thought of James holding press conferences to talk about their family matters. “Kasi sikat ako and gusto nila sumikat. No, I' sorry, totoo. And yung ano kasi, when we got the results na nanalo ako, nagpa-presscon ba ako? Hindi. Nanahimik ako. Sino ang nagpa-presscon ng pa-presscon? And tutal gusto naman nila, didiretsuhin ko rin na let's go through this the proper way. Walang nanay ang napakawalang hiya na idi-deprive niya of a father lalo na kung buhay yung tatay na yun kasi I know what it's like to grow up with no dad pero be responsible naman. Hindi lang yung parang dinemand mo lang kung kelan convenient sayo okay,” she said. The talk show host commented she learned a lesson on true fatherhood from her own employees who have families of their own. “Siguro na-witness ko kasi na when you have employees na mga tatay, like my drivers, pag May super pakitang gilas kasi kailangan bumale, mag-advance kasi tuition fee and naging kaugalian ko na, hindi ko binubuhat ang bangko ko pero meron kaming savings na ginagawa na kung anog nase-save nila, mina-match ko so nagpaalam kung puwedeng kunin muna nila yung naka-set aside for their retirement. So with what my drivers earn, they'll do everything para lang mapag-aral nila ang mga anak nila. Eto, diretso na, since nag-start ba ng school ni Bimb, bumunot ba ever sa bulsa yung tatay? Nag-offer ba ever? Kasi parang ang dali-daling sabihin na mahal na mahal mo anak mo, na gusto mong magkaroon ng relationship sa kanya pero lahat ng tatay sa Pilipinas mag-aagree sa akin na what does it mean to be father? It means that you are responsible, na good provider ka to the best of your ability. Hindi naman ako naghihingi ng millions. Never nga ako humingi eh. I'm sure paglaki ng anak ko I'm sure gusto rin naman niya malaman na nagkusa yung tatay niya. Hindi yung puro kuha lang ng kumuha sa amin. Sana magbigay din naman sa bata. If my drivers who are earning a percentage lang of what he's earning gagampangin para sa mga anak nila, I don't think it's too much to expect naman sana na ganun din ang ibigay sa anak niya kung gusto niya. Hindi yung puro salita ng salita, presscon ng presscon, when actually gaun diba? Be a father first.” </div>

The Kris TV host admits her estranged husband has made no attempt to contact their son Bimby on Father's Day.

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