Ai Ai delas Alas shares lessons from short-lived marriage with Jed Salang

Maureen Marie Belmonte

<div><img src='https://push-data.abs-cbn.com/push/archive/features/2013/120913/120913-AiAi1_Main.jpg' alt='120913-AiAi1_Main.jpg' width='305' height='290' align='left' border='0'>At 49, comedienne Ai Ai delas Alas is still learning things as she go through the events in her life, particularly and more recently, her failed marriage with her now estranged husband Jed Salang.</div><div><br/></div><div>Ai Ai who has done a complete 360-degree turn from being a smitten woman to a battered wife had previously filed a case against Jed for the violation of the Anti-Violence against Women and Their Children Act of 2004.</div><div><br/></div><div>The veteran actress' has tied the knot with Jed in Las Vegas last April 3 only to decide to break it up with him on May 2 after claiming in a tearful interview with The Buzz that she was physically abused by her new husband.</div><div><br/></div><div>Asked what she has learned from her controversial marriage, Ai Ai during an appearance on Sunday’s Buzz ng Bayan said, 'Not to be too trusting.'</div><div><br/></div><div>According to her previous interview, Ai Ai revealed that part of what she and Jed argued about that eventually led to their physical altercation was how the latter wanted to celebrate their first month as husband and wife in a casino, something which she didn’t agree with.</div><div><br/></div><div>Ai Ai however recognizes the fact that she also had her own share of shortcomings that needs to be changed should she start a relationship with someone new.</div><div><br/></div><div><img src='' alt='120913-Ai-Ai-main.jpg' width='305' height='290' align='left' border='0'><i>'Kagaya ng parati kong pagkakamali,</i> reactionary <i>kasi ako eh. Madali akong mag-</i>react eh.<i> Kunyari galit, maigsi ang pasensya ko. Tapos may nasasabi akong hindi maganda </i>or <i>masakit, hindi ko na mabawi. Ngayon, na-</i>realize <i>ko, kapag galit na galit ako, </i>Jesus, Jesus <i>mga </i>10 times. <i>Kasi dadating ang</i> time <i>na kapag may sinabi ka sa kapwa mo at nasabi mo na, hindi mo na mababawi, ” </i>she explained.</div><div><br/></div><div>More importantly, Ai Ai stressed that it's crucial to be mindful of your partner's emotions when in a relationship.</div><div><br/></div><div><i>'Tsaka sabi ko </i>next time,<i> kung sino man 'yong swerte, 'yun 'yung una kong gagawin. Hindi na ako magsasalita </i>or<i> iisipin ko</i> 100x <i>bago ko ibuka 'yung bibig ko </i>and I think it's maturity <i>na kapag ganon,'</i> related the actress.</div><div><br/></div><div>To give update to her fans, Ai Ai shared that her case against Jed is still ongoing.</div><div><br/></div><div><i>“Bawal sa aming mag-usap, bawal sa aming mag-</i>text or anything,' she shared.</div><div><br/></div><div>But is she open to be friends with him, say int he future?</div><div><br/></div><div><i>'Siguro pagdating ng panahon. Siguro mga </i>five years or 10 years from now,<i> baka,</i>” Ai Ai ended.</div>

Ai Ai on the possibility of being friends with Jed: 'Siguro pagdating ng panahon. Siguro mga five years or 10 years from now, baka'

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